Why Your People Leave: Creating a Culture That Makes Them Want to Stay

Firm Management | February 26, 2025

Why Your People Leave: Creating a Culture That Makes Them Want to Stay

Creating a firm where people choose to stay isn't about policies or perks—it's about building an environment where work-life harmony thrives and professional growth feels limitless.

Amy Vetter

The resignation letter sitting on your desk represents more than another staffing challenge. Behind those carefully worded paragraphs lies a story that began months, maybe years ago. As firm leaders, we naturally focus on the obvious reasons people leave: compensation, busy season demands, or competing offers from the industry. Yet after decades in public accounting, my conversations with firms across the country reveal a deeper truth about retention that transcends these surface-level explanations.

The statistics are sobering: 3.5 million Americans voluntarily left their jobs in February 2024. Each departure ripples through our organizations, affecting client relationships, team dynamics, and financial performance in ways standard metrics often fail to capture. While exit interviews might point to flexible working arrangements or better opportunities, these factors typically serve as the final catalyst rather than the root cause.

Creating a firm where people choose to stay isn’t about policies or perks—it’s about building an environment where work-life harmony thrives and professional growth feels limitless. The path forward requires a fundamental shift in how we approach leadership, redefining success beyond traditional metrics to embrace the human side of our profession.

The Hidden Costs of Disconnected Leadership

The math of turnover hits hard: replacing a $60,000 salaried employee costs your firm up to $45,000. For technical positions, that number soars to 150% of annual salary; for leadership roles, it climbs to 213%. As a CPA, I respect these numbers—but they only tell part of the story.

Every departure reshapes your firm. Your remaining team shoulders more work while wondering about their own future. Clients lose their trusted advisor and the deep understanding that comes from years of partnership. New team members need months to gain momentum, with firms investing 10-20% of their salary in training along the way.

But the actual cost? It shows up in your culture. Innovation slows. Trust erodes. Teams stop bringing their best ideas forward. They’re present but not engaged, careful but not creative.

Benefits packages and flexible schedules matter, but they won’t solve your retention challenges alone. Building work-life harmony creates an environment where people choose to stay because they’re growing, contributing, and feeling genuinely valued.

Breaking Traditional Work Patterns

Traditional accounting methods tell us success equals billable hours, quick turnaround, and consistent growth. But these measurements miss something essential: the human drive for purpose and growth. My journey from a traditional CPA to understanding work-life harmony taught me that our old patterns actively push talent away.

Think about your current success metrics. Do they measure what truly matters? When partners focus solely on billable targets, team members feel reduced to numbers. When advancement depends on sacrificing personal time, we lose our most promising leaders—especially young professionals who want meaningful careers and fulfilling lives.

The solution starts with honest questions:

  • Does your team feel energized or exhausted?
  • Are your meetings collaborative or just status updates?
  • Do your people have space to innovate, or are they trapped in reactive workflows?

I see firms succeeding with a different approach. They measure employee growth alongside revenue. They create clear career paths that value leadership skills as much as technical expertise. Most importantly, they give their teams permission to work differently—to question old habits and suggest better ways forward.

Building Authentic Team Connections

The rise of remote and hybrid work has made authentic connections more challenging and crucial than ever. But technology alone can’t bridge the gap between teams and leadership. Connected leadership requires something deeper than digital tools and scheduled check-ins.

Your most talented people don’t leave jobs—they leave disconnected environments. They step away when they can’t see their future in your firm, feel unheard, or when their growth stalls. Technical training matters, but meaningful mentorship transforms careers.

As a Connected Leader, your presence matters more than your policies. It shows up in small moments: giving your full attention during one-on-one meetings, asking about career goals and actually building paths to achieve them, and creating safe spaces for your team to share ideas. These moments build trust and loyalty that no compensation package can match.

The most successful firms weave connection into their daily operations. They pair senior leaders with emerging talent in ways that benefit both and understand that every interaction shapes their culture—from quick messages to team meetings to performance reviews. When your team feels connected to their work, their colleagues, and their own growth path, they become invested in your firm’s future.

Takeaway

The actual cost of turnover cuts deeper than financial calculations, but the solution starts with connection. Your team doesn’t need another policy change or technology platform. They need leaders who show up differently—fwho understand that lasting retention grows from genuine relationships, clear growth paths, and work that matters.

Start small. In your next one-on-one meeting, choose presence over productivity. Ask about career goals and actually listen. Create space for new ideas. Most importantly, recognize that building a firm where people want to stay isn’t about grand gestures but consistent, mindful leadership that values professional excellence and personal growth.

The talent crisis in accounting isn’t ending soon. But firms that prioritize connection over compliance, growth over grinding, and purpose over politics will not only retain their best people—they’ll attract more of them.

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Amy Vetter, CPA, CGMA, is the CEO of The B³ Method (Business + Balance = Bliss) Institute, where she empowers accounting professionals to transform their firms through connected leadership and client advisory excellence. With over 25 years of experience, including executive roles at global technology companies, Amy blends deep industry knowledge with mindfulness principles to help practitioners create sustainable success. Her Cherished Advisory Services programs guide firms in developing high-value client relationships that drive growth and profitability. Amy is a best-selling author, sought-after keynote speaker, and host of the Breaking Beliefs podcast. She has been repeatedly recognized as one of the “Top 25 Most Powerful Women in Accounting” and a “Top 100 Most Influential Person in Accounting” by industry publications.

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Amy Vetter

Amy Vetter

CPA, CITP, CGMA

Amy Vetter, CPA, CGMA, is the CEO of The B³ Method (Business + Balance = Bliss) Institute, where she empowers accounting professionals to transform their firms through connected leadership and client advisory excellence. With over 25 years of experience, including executive roles at global technology companies, Amy blends deep industry knowledge with mindfulness principles to help practitioners create sustainable success. Her Cherished Advisory Services programs guide firms in developing high-value client relationships that drive growth and profitability. Amy is a best-selling author, sought-after keynote speaker, and host of the Breaking Beliefs podcast. She has been repeatedly recognized as one of the "Top 25 Most Powerful Women in Accounting" and a "Top 100 Most Influential Person in Accounting" by industry publications.